Do you wish to be a people’s person? As in someone who’s almost like a magnet. Wherever he or she goes, he attracts people, she attracts people around them for all the good reasons but I know of course there are people who attract attention for quite unwanted reasons, but today we are not talking about them.
Today we are talking about people who attract good attention, And we will look into more detail that what are the personality traits of such people. So be sure that you stick around to find out what are those personality traits and who those unique personalities that we can always remember and we just can’t forget. So much so that other people also wish to be around those people, to win their friendship and to win their approval. If you want to be one such person then make sure you read this complete article.
Hey… do you like Charlie Chaplin? I adore him, Yeah! What image comes to your mind when I say the name, Charlie Chaplin? Can you think up a man with moustache, suit and a cane in his hand? Well, the below image cannot be confused with any other personality because it is so typically Chaplin, Wow! Now let me think a female name, How about Marilyn Monroe? Do you know about her? What do you see in your mind? Do you see a lovely beautiful woman with blonde tresses and red lipstick, a white dress and beautiful mole? I think I almost spelt out the image you had in your mind, didn’t I?
So why I am I talking all of these today? I said its not about appearance right? Of course, your personality is not just about your appearance but today I want to draw your attention to the fact that it is the unique image of a person that allows him to attract people so that they can remember them.
So you can remember Chaplin because of his moustache and Marilyn Monroe because of her white dress. The same way you should also have an image that allows people to remember you. Even a very meek and simple looking person, For example, Mahatma Gandhi could also cast a great impression upon the people and he could draw masses, but what is the uniqueness in you? Can you think of a unique thing about your image?
Do you have a unique hairstyle or something that you never changed
Let’s say you always have a French beard and it never changes so people remember you that the guy with French beard? That’s how they talk about you. So maybe you have something particular about you, It could be the way of talking and how do you remember me? Is there something particular thinking about which you remember me? Do let me know what is the unique image that comes to your mind when you think of me? But right now I want you to add something unique to your personality so that others can remember you. Think about it, brainstorm about what you want should be unique in your personality so that other people always remember you.
Do you have the problem to help others?
Let me ask you a question, can somebody rely on you if they have a problem? If your answer to this is ‘Yes’, then you are a peoples person. Only an independent person can be a people’s person, while you are independent you should also be self-dependant. This means that you should not depend on others for help too much rather you should be the one who helps other people. Can people come to you for help? Do you think they can ask you for help if they are going through a struggle? Will you be there for them? Do you think you have the potential to help people?
For Example: If any of your friends need your help or if someone is in a problem, would you be available to help them? Well, this the question that tells you whether or not your people’s person and if your answer is ‘Yes’, I would be able to help someone then this is great because this is very courageous.
Make helping people your habit and you’re definitely there to attract a lot of people towards you who would follow you for being who you are. And also I would like to tell you that you must monitor your speech, you should avoid saying phrases like, ‘I guess’, ‘I suppose’, ‘maybe’, ‘probably’ this makes people feel that you are kind of unsure about things. Instead, you should replace them with like. ‘I can’, ‘I will’, ‘I will learn’ let your yes be your yes and your no be no. So be a people’s person through this step I have shares with you.
Are you complaint Box?
Could you ever admire and want to be like a person who is always complaining? Of course not. So why complain and make our listeners also feel troubled. This is a step to push people away, when you start complaining grumbling too much, people don’t want to be with you. So it’s important that you have a positive mindset to keep people in your life. You should avoid criticism over little things, you should avoid complaints and even negative topics.
So even if something is going wrong in your life like maybe you are going through a family problem or some financial struggle, should not talk about this to your friends always. Make sure that your conversations are filled with positivity and do not let your situation affect your conversations and people will be there to listen to you and to talk to you for sure.
Your Behavior Reflects your Confidence.
Do you know that your behaviour reflects your confidence and therefore I say you should not slouch or lie down as if you are so lazy? Instead, I think it’s important that in your daily activities you should smile more often and avoid closed postures like this.
In general whatever whenever you appear in public act and feel like a celebrity, celebrate yourself. Your public appearance, the way you walk and the confidence in the way smile says a lot about you. And make sure that you sit upright and your postures should be very strong and not lousy which makes you look tired. So make sure you have a good posture because that reflects your confidence.
Are you a Story Teller
Do you enjoy telling stories? Yes ? Do you how to do it? No?
okay tell me this do you think storytelling is an art or a skill?
You think it’s an art?
Wrong, storytelling is a skill and this is one skill that can be learned at any time in your just if you have confidence, yes. You can tell stories and attract people to you, especially stories that are humorous if you have the ability to crack jokes about yourself, of course not every one of your story and jokes will work but you could start by telling your personal story to your friends, you know your close friends and build confidence slowly and step by step so that your success story or failure story with the people around you, or maybe you know you could just share about the funny incidents where you lost your phone and how you got it back or something like how you climbed up the success ladder. So all of these are different ways to talk about your experiences through storytelling.
Storytelling is of course not memorizing a story and telling it. It’s more about telling about your personal experiences to people to let them know about what you’ve been through. And if people like your stories then this will start a chain reaction and one person will tell it to another person who knows, soon you might even see your story circulating as a WhatsApp message, wow… that would be great, has it ever happened with you? please let me know it has. So this is another way of attracting people around you and to be a public magnet.
So in this article today I have shared with how to be a public magnet and how to attract people and keep them in your life. Well as I told you it’s not just about your appearance, it’s more about your personality. How you smile, what is the kind of message you share, do you have a big dream and what’s unique about your image? So these are all questions that you have to answer for yourself and then make yourself a public magnet or a peoples person.
So if you want to attract masses to follow you make sure that you follow all these tips and let me know what you learnt today in the ‘comment’ section.